Today i was wondering about the kundalini. I usually match the kundalini for my friends for their wards marriage free of charge on my computer. But i don't know how to interprete kundalini.
Is this kundalini real one, does the gruh (planets) affect our life. I don't know. It is observed that most of people see the kundalini at time of marriage. We match the man's and woman's kundalini. When all the factors (or most of factors )match we fix the marriage. After marriage they become like a standard rotten ones.My wife don't have kundalini. So, ours did not match.
During this process one day a thought came to my mind. Why this kundalini matching is needed and how many kundalini matches with mine. So, secretely i started matching all the woman's kundalini which i can find and started studying without any mischievious intentions.
My kundalini matched with 2 womans. But they are my sisters(?).
One is my colleages daughter and other is my sister-in-law. Computer predicted that for first case it was not advisable because we have age difference. Ya, our age difference is so much that she could have been my own dauther, if i had married at 18 yrs age .
Result for other person that is my sister-in-law was interesting. Computer said to me that she is exact fit for me and will make my happy. Then one fine day i told my sister-in-law that you should marry me. Why she asked. I told computer kundalini matching. She very laughingly said that " Jijaji i have a boy friend and have excellent realationships for past 10 years (!). "
I don't know whether this kundalini is true or not. I am still wondering at this kundalini business. So, for me this milan is bogus. For the beleiver if any one comes to me for matching i will do it free of charge on my computer.
Showing posts with label second marriage. Show all posts
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Monday, June 21, 2010
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Second Spouse a DODO's dream.
This is a very stinking subject. People refrained from writing but there is a need to write. Now a days i am seeing lot of peoples resorting to keeping boyfriend and girlfriend.Whether it is moral or immoral, legal or illegal i dont want to dwelve into it.
For me, one thing, i am constantly thinking is that>>>Are they unsatisfied with their parter ? Do their partners are not healthy, happy , supportive ? Do they actually require some more satisfactions,.........
But what i see is that, their first partners are okey. The man {who is keeping second spouce } wife is okey, supportive. First wife is tolerating other woman in life of her husband. Female of this second relations-ship {second wife ) is usually not married, very hungry, or she broke her marriage or she does not have hope for merriage due to various reasons.
We all see lot of persons roaming in a couples but they are not legally married. They are students, co-worker, working in same business etc. This pehenomena has engulfed whole society be it IAS or a labourer. Their desires they know ! but on the face they are content and happy in what they are doing ?
Law is biased and in practcle un-effective. I also see that office persons, relatives etc are tolerating and not objecting anything. We are not painting anyone bad. But when getting married we want a virgin girl ?
Now our double standard comes to light. It is observed that a persons married life is only 5 years. In five years s/he gets all highs if they are lucky. Then social responsibilities start. This unsastisfaction is cause of illicite relationships. We should change our mind set.
Say if we start marriage at 20 years for female and 23-25 years for male we might have 10 years healthy & productive time for couples satisfaction whitin marriage. We should reduce legally age of marriage and not opt for careers or manage , build carrers from spouses place. When we don't have the ideal man or woman, still foolling around the age old norms and laws.
We should accept that we are not able to heal the root problem. Our patches in various forms are artificial. Now, Do we join them ?Actully i don't know............. Actually we are changing. A virgin and pious persons are very rare to find and in on way to extinctions. I am also one step behind DODO. ( "dodo" a bird recently vanished from earth due to over exploitations).
For me, one thing, i am constantly thinking is that>>>Are they unsatisfied with their parter ? Do their partners are not healthy, happy , supportive ? Do they actually require some more satisfactions,.........
But what i see is that, their first partners are okey. The man {who is keeping second spouce } wife is okey, supportive. First wife is tolerating other woman in life of her husband. Female of this second relations-ship {second wife ) is usually not married, very hungry, or she broke her marriage or she does not have hope for merriage due to various reasons.
We all see lot of persons roaming in a couples but they are not legally married. They are students, co-worker, working in same business etc. This pehenomena has engulfed whole society be it IAS or a labourer. Their desires they know ! but on the face they are content and happy in what they are doing ?
Law is biased and in practcle un-effective. I also see that office persons, relatives etc are tolerating and not objecting anything. We are not painting anyone bad. But when getting married we want a virgin girl ?
Now our double standard comes to light. It is observed that a persons married life is only 5 years. In five years s/he gets all highs if they are lucky. Then social responsibilities start. This unsastisfaction is cause of illicite relationships. We should change our mind set.
Say if we start marriage at 20 years for female and 23-25 years for male we might have 10 years healthy & productive time for couples satisfaction whitin marriage. We should reduce legally age of marriage and not opt for careers or manage , build carrers from spouses place. When we don't have the ideal man or woman, still foolling around the age old norms and laws.
We should accept that we are not able to heal the root problem. Our patches in various forms are artificial. Now, Do we join them ?Actully i don't know............. Actually we are changing. A virgin and pious persons are very rare to find and in on way to extinctions. I am also one step behind DODO. ( "dodo" a bird recently vanished from earth due to over exploitations).
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