This is minority report. I have no political connections or views. I am not centre, left or right. I don't have any political beliefs. I cast vote. I participate in all community works. But i don't participate in any religious processions.
I feel let down. Imagine the time when i find a girl / woman who is suitable to me and i am with un-suitable woman. I want to get married and get divorce. What is my options. ? As a hindu i have a very meagre chance to have a faithful / safe / satisfying physical relationships legally. But being a good fearing person i want it legally. Inquiries were made with my lawyer friends.- Explain legal positions. Answer to me was very negative one. Illegally you can do anything. Oh, we have double standard.
For a Hindu Educated Man has to wait atleast 28-30 years, woman has to wait for 25-35 years to get married. We pass our biological productive period. I look down to the life of my muslim friends. They almost all got married before 22-24 and girls around me were married even at 15-17 age. Same is the case with my cousins who are living in the remote villages of india, uneducated, not employed with govt-self employed, almost all were married before the age of 25. City dwellers were like me.
There is nothing special about physical relationships or nothing hidden. But healthy marriage is the building block of society. If we want to grow a balanced progressive society we have let people marry at the age of 21.
Problem is with divorce process and mentality of legal system. We all knows that, now a days from a family to family situations are so much changed that a common stereotype can not be put on them.
Now we are not tolerating a woman bunking the line at ticket windows of railways. All males shout loudly that oh woman you also stand with all wo/man in line.
We have to rethink our mindset otherwise i see a situation were hindus like me will be s minority one fine day.
My all best friends are not from cast hindus. I was once living in the western part of India. One fine day due to some circumstance i have to leave my city and my house . My shares of house became vacant. We had to sell it to a minority. One by one they encroached almost all buildings. We are a marshal family , still we had to sell. We have not even got the material cost of building. I am not talking about the land-cost. I felt like an invasion and deeply hurt. Now where i live they also sold one portion to. I now have to tolerate the nuisance of meat-eating.
A group consisting 35 % of population can not claim to be minority anymore. We have to redefine ourselves. It is right time. What is democracy ! peoples elected by peoples - rule the people. If a group is living in a pocket and their representative can win elections and go to parliament and without any bloodshed a single aimed group can change rules if they have sufficient number in house.
Now it needs lot of thinking, remember George Orwell's 1984.
Problem is with divorce process and mentality of legal system. We all knows that, now a days from a family to family situations are so much changed that a common stereotype can not be put on them.
Now we are not tolerating a woman bunking the line at ticket windows of railways. All males shout loudly that oh woman you also stand with all wo/man in line.
We have to rethink our mindset otherwise i see a situation were hindus like me will be s minority one fine day.
My all best friends are not from cast hindus. I was once living in the western part of India. One fine day due to some circumstance i have to leave my city and my house . My shares of house became vacant. We had to sell it to a minority. One by one they encroached almost all buildings. We are a marshal family , still we had to sell. We have not even got the material cost of building. I am not talking about the land-cost. I felt like an invasion and deeply hurt. Now where i live they also sold one portion to. I now have to tolerate the nuisance of meat-eating.
A group consisting 35 % of population can not claim to be minority anymore. We have to redefine ourselves. It is right time. What is democracy ! peoples elected by peoples - rule the people. If a group is living in a pocket and their representative can win elections and go to parliament and without any bloodshed a single aimed group can change rules if they have sufficient number in house.
Now it needs lot of thinking, remember George Orwell's 1984.
